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Men! Your lover wants an orgasm during your lovemaking! Though she may not want an orgasm every time you have sex, she certainly isn't going to be too happy if sex finishes when you've ejaculated, rolled over and gone to sleep! The best way to ensure her sexual pleasure is to make sure she's had at least one orgasm before you ejaculate. There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of positions that will let her get the pleasure she craves, while making sure you don't miss out on your orgasm! First, if you haven't tried sex in the woman on top, then check it out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to enjoying sex - it's a position that permits them to move in the way that gives them the greatest pleasure, whether that's through clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation. She can rock her hips and pelvis much more in this position, and because she's in charge of her movements, she's likely to get orgasmic satisfaction. She can either press her clitoris against the shaft of your penisgrind it against your pubic mound, or lean back or forwards so that her vagina gets the exact pressure it needs to get her to orgasm. If you can control your ejaculation, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during sexual intercourse. If she wants to improve the feelings in her vagina, she can use her PC muscles to squeeze your penis: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly increase the pressure on her G spot - and therefore increase the chances of her having an orgasm and also ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (Female ejaculation is the subject of another article - but basically, if her vagina is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she achieves her reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her vagina will squirt out during the muscular contractions of her orgasm.) And one other advantage of woman on top lovemaking is that you can see her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she's facing away from you, then you have the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, known as the Reverse Cowgirl,uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much. And what next? Well, the good ol' man on top position. But before you groan, think again. Many women like missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, gives you really deep penetration and the chance to thrust deeply and powerfully. What's more, if you have a penis that curves upwards when it's erect, as many do, then sex in the man on top position will allow your penis to thrust against her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, either with a vibrator or with your fingers, and you have the best of all possible worlds for her! As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very interesting way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into a long-lasting orgasm. Another variation is to use eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just shimmer against her G spot, so don't go more than a couple of inches into her vagina when you try this. Another good idea for her to reach orgasm is to have her sitting on a table or, alternatively, any other surface where she's the right height for you to enter her while you're standing in front of her with her legs apart. making love in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you embrace and fondle each other. To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, apply a little extra clitoral attention. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may stimulate her G spot in the way needed to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more stimulating to be having sex in an unusual position and somewhere other than the bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful orgasm. Next, there's a very gentle and easy sex position known as the "spoons" position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her vagina from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, particularly if she lifts her upper leg slightly while you push into her. The best thing about this sexual position is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, caress her breasts, and kiss the back of her neck and her back, while she (or you) can stimulate her clitoris. Another great variation of this position is the opportunity to make love on your sides as you face each other. The best way to get into the facing side by side sex position is by starting from the man on top, ask her to lift her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (make sure you agree which way to roll first!). You can keep going for much longer in this position before you ejaculate, as there's much less pressure on your erection. And, with the right amount of loving attention, and perhaps a helping hand on her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before you do, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina. And lastly, what about the thrill of doggy style sex? This primal position is many men's favorite sex position, being so rude and raunchy, and it usually makes men come quite quickly. But lots of women like it too, and there are plenty of reasons why. It allows deep penetration, it permits her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her man as she wishes, and, best of all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, particularly if you reach forward and hold her hips and guide her movements. If she raises her head or lowers it so she's bending down from her pelvis, you'll get a lot of exciting variation in sensation - so you can find the precise position that gives you both the greatest pleasure. There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of the woman's orgasm during sex. But if you're the man, and these positions don't help her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Help her enjoy an orgasm from oral sex or a hand job before you enter her, and you'll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full. Orgasm during intercourse feels great, but don't forget there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction!
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Rod Phillips advises on sexual issues at Sex In Human Loving.
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